Contrition, contrite, repentance, remorse, regret, sorrow, sorry, penitent, apologetic.
Grace, forgiveness, elegance, refinement, loveliness, polish, beauty, poise, charm.
The order of terms suggests that you cannot have the latter without first being broken.
And thus the necessity of the differential, without it there is no meaning.
Ignorance proceeds wisdom and even God cannot prevent this existential truth.
We weep for our children knowing the path to knowledge is suffrage.
Would that you could tell them but they will not listen until burned.
The world is an incorrigible child not yet contrite. Oh the sorrow!